Marriage is intended to be a lifelong commitment to another person, but the reality is many marriages end in divorce. According to the Census Bureau, 9.7% of males over 15 years old and 8.8% of females over 15 years old are divorced.
Myriad issues — including work stress, money troubles, and even personal changes over time — can lead to divorce. In an email to 24/7 Wall St., clinically trained New York City social worker and matrimonial attorney Debra Lynn Mechanick identified two factors that greatly contribute to divorce: finances and children. “When couples argue about finances or children, what they are really expressing is a fundamental shift in ideology by one or both spouses that strays from the common vision they once held together,” wrote Mechanick.
> Divorce rate: 19.1 per 1,000 married people
> Marriage rate: 16.5 per 1,000 people (8th highest)
> Unemployment rate: 4.8% (25th highest)
> Avg. wedding cost: $21,173 (6th lowest)
Country music often deals with relationships that went south. So it’s no surprise that the home state of Nashville, country music’s capital city, has a lot of splits. Some 19.1 individuals per every 1,000 married people in Tennessee divorced, the 10th-highest divorce rate of all states. No doubt, a common reason for divorce is financial issues. Perhaps the high divorce rate in Tennessee is attributable to financial stressors, although — realistically — it’s hard to pinpoint just one cause. Financial stressors, for example, can limit a couple’s ability to go on dates, such as nice dinners or even a trip to the movie theater, which can cause add tension in a relationship. The state’s poverty rate of 15.8% is nearly 2 percentage points higher than the national rate of 14.0%.
Anger and fear can diminish effective communication in a marriage, explained Mechanick. As a result, the couple develops problems that, over time, build up until they believe their issues are unsolvable. “At that point, the spouses believe that only the judicial system can help them reach a solution that is fair and equitable,” said Mechanick.
Divorce is a sad reality in every state in the country, but in some states divorce rates are higher than in others. There does not seem to be a regional component between the states with the highest and lowest divorce rates. However, median household income and the unemployment rate seem to affect the rate of divorce.
To identify the states with the highest rate of divorce, 24/7 Wall St. reviewed Census Bureau data on the number of people who divorced in 2016 and the number of married individuals in 2015. The divorce rate is defined as the number of people who divorced per every 1,000 married individuals.